My parents divorced when I was in college...
(I know that isn't probably the best way to start a blog post, but you will understand if you read on...)
At 19, it was hard for me to understand
why my parents split up, and even harder to understand how in just a few
short years, both my mom and dad remarried...
But as the years went on and I got
married myself, I realized that sometimes, things just don't work out
the way you planned and that sometimes, you have to move in different
directions.
With that said, I have to tell you how VERY BLESSED I am to have the most AMAZING "two sets of parents"!
I know it sounds strange, but my mom and
step-dad and dad and step-mom all get along so well that family
gatherings usually include them both!
I know not every family situation is like mine and I give thanks every day for my "mixed" family!
With that said...let me get to the point of this post...
Craig and I have known Edward for a long
time...ski trips, birthday parties, cookouts...our kids "grew up"
together during all these events...
Like my own situation though, I realized
that sometimes things just don't work out and you have to move in
different directions...
The day I met Jennifer, I could see
IMMEDIATELY how happy she and Edward were together, and was absolutely
THRILLED when they asked me to shoot their wedding!
It was the most amazing day...
Jennifer and Edward were surrounded by their closest friends and family...
The mood was calm and relaxed...
The weather was perfect...
But what made it MOST amazing, were the
sweet "welcoming" faces on Edward's two kids as everyone "bustled"
around preparing for the ceremony...
Like I said above...at 19, I had a hard
time understanding what was going on with my family...but it brought
tears to my eyes to see these 8 and 9 year old children standing up for
their dad and their new step-mom during the ceremony that made them a
new "mixed" family (just like mine...)
At the end of the service, Jennifer's brother (who performed the ceremony) said "you may now kiss your bride"...
And after their brief kiss, Jennifer and
Edward reached for those two sweet, amazing kids with smiles on their
faces and shared an embrace that would be the start of their new family
adventures together.
(hence my Favorite Wedding Moment..."The Family Embrace")
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